Tosin Gentry
About Me
Before I became a relationship coach for ambitious singles and after my fashion modelling days, I spent years navigating the fast-paced worlds of Private Equity and Asset Management firms. My career revolved around high-performance environments, demanding clients, and billion-dollar decisions. I realized that success in business doesn’t automatically translate to success in love — and that so many powerful, accomplished people silently struggle with the same thing: being strong everywhere except in their heart.
Today, I help women rewrite that story.
I coach singles who are successful on paper but ready for something more — real partnership, emotional confidence, and healthy love. My approach blends mindset mastery, emotional intelligence, and modern relationship strategy to help you attract and recognize a partner who’s genuinely right for you.
Because you don’t have to choose between being powerful and being loved. You can have both — and I’m here to help you get there.
For the woman who’s been waiting
You’ve spent years building a good life. You’ve worked hard, grown strong, and learned to depend on yourself. You’re independent, capable, and grateful for the blessings you do have.
But deep down, there’s still that quiet ache.
That longing to be loved and truly seen by someone who chooses you.
You’ve waited. You’ve hoped. You’ve told yourself to stay positive.
But the longer it takes, the harder it feels to keep believing that love is still possible.
You sometimes wonder what you’re doing wrong—or if maybe your chance has passed.
You’re not alone in feeling that way. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you.
I know this season can feel lonely, confusing, and even a little embarrassing to talk about. But I want you to know: your story doesn’t end here.
I Understand Because I’ve Lived It
I’ve walked through that same tension—the waiting, the questioning, the moments of hope that quietly slipped into disappointment.
That’s why I created this coaching space—for women who have been strong for too long. For women who are tired of “just being patient” and ready to feel alive, confident, and open again.
My coaching isn’t about teaching you how to “get a man.”
It’s about helping you become whole again—so you can attract love from a place of peace and power, not pain or pressure.
What We’ll Work On Together
This journey is about more than finding love. It’s about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
Together, we’ll help you:
Release self-doubt and comparison
Let go of the belief that you’re behind or not enough. Learn to see yourself through new eyes—strong, magnetic, and deeply worthy.
Heal from the past
We’ll gently uncover and release emotional blocks from heartbreak, rejection, or years of waiting that have made you close off.
Reconnect with joy and purpose
You’ll rediscover what makes you feel radiant and alive—independent of anyone else.
Approach love from confidence, not fear
Whether you’re dating, healing, or simply learning to open your heart again, you’ll do it from a place of clarity and calm—not anxiety or scarcity.
Rebuild hope without losing yourself
Hope doesn’t have to hurt. You can hold space for your desire for love while fully living and loving your life right now.
Recognising a Good Man When He Appears
Once your heart is healed and your confidence restored, I’ll help you identify the kind of man who truly aligns with your values, your energy, and your future.
Because it’s not about finding someone — it’s about recognizing the right one when he shows up.
In our work together, you’ll learn to:
Recognize emotional maturity
We’ll explore what healthy masculinity looks like—consistency, kindness, emotional awareness, and the ability to communicate openly without games or confusion.
Understand compatibility vs. chemistry
You’ll learn the difference between instant attraction and long-term connection—and how to spot men who bring peace, not chaos, into your life.
Spot green flags early
We’ll identify the real signs of a good man: respect, effort, honesty, empathy, and the willingness to grow together.
Trust your intuition again
You’ll rebuild confidence in your ability to discern—not from fear or fantasy, but from inner wisdom and self-worth.
Set boundaries that attract the right energy
You’ll learn to communicate your needs clearly and calmly, creating space for genuine, mutual love instead of settling for temporary attention.
This is not about lowering your standards—it’s about refining them.
Because when you know who you are and what you deserve, you naturally attract a different kind of man. The right kind.
My Approach
This isn’t about surface-level affirmations or quick fixes.
It’s about deep, lasting transformation.
Our sessions are intimate, honest conversations where you can let your guard down, unpack what’s been heavy, and start building a new foundation—one rooted in self-love, peace, and possibility.
I use a blend of mindset coaching, emotional healing, and practical strategies to help you create real change. We’ll identify patterns, shift your energy, and equip you with tools to show up as your best self—in every area of life.
Every woman I work with leaves feeling lighter, more confident, and more open to love—because she’s learned to fall in love with her own life first.
You Are Not Behind
You are not broken
You haven’t missed your moment.
You are allowed to want love.
You are allowed to have hope.
And you are absolutely allowed to live fully while waiting for it.
The truth is—you don’t need to be “fixed.” You just need to be reminded of who you are: a woman who is worthy of deep love, meaningful connection, and a life that feels full.
Your story isn’t over. The best chapters are still ahead.
Let’s Begin
If you’re ready to stop waiting and start becoming—to heal, grow, and finally believe in love again—I’d love to walk this journey with you.
Together, we’ll create a new kind of hope. The kind that isn’t fragile or wishful—but rooted in confidence, clarity, and peace.
Your next chapter starts here.
Let’s begin the beautiful work of coming home to you.